How to Help Your Child Memorize Multiplication Facts (Without the Tears)
Memorizing multiplication facts is the single biggest math task of third grade, and it's the place where a lot of kids start to think they're "bad at math." They're not. They're just being asked to memorize 100 things — that's harder than most adults remember it being.
Here's the plan that actually works. It assumes your child knows what multiplication means (4 × 3 is four groups of three) and just needs to make those facts automatic.
Don't teach them in order
Most kids learn 0s, 1s, 2s, 5s, 10s, then 3s, 4s, 6s, 7s, 8s, 9s, 11s, 12s. Roughly. The order matters because the easy facts buy confidence and free up brain space for the hard ones.
The actual order I recommend:
- 2s, 5s, 10s — these are skip-counting kids already know
- 0s and 1s — give yourself a free win
- 11s — for facts up to 9, just doubles the digit (11 × 7 = 77)
- 9s — has the cool finger trick and the digits-add-to-9 pattern
- 4s — double of 2s
- 3s — manageable
- 6s, 7s, 8s — the hard middle, save for last
- 12s — useful but not strictly required
By the time your child gets to the hard middle (6s, 7s, 8s), they already know most of those facts from the commutative property. 6 × 4 is the same as 4 × 6. The "new" facts in 7s are really only 7×7, 7×8, 7×9. That's three facts. Suddenly the mountain isn't so big.
Drill the same fact set for a week
Don't introduce a new table until the previous one is solid. Pick 4s. Practice 4s and only 4s for five days. Then quiz them on 4s mixed with everything they already know. If they pass, move to the next set.
Fifteen minutes a day, five days a week
That's the magic dose. Less than that and the facts don't stick. More than that and your child starts hating multiplication, which sets you back further than the extra practice gained.
Use our individual times table pages — for example, the 4 times table and the 7 times table — to focus on one set at a time.
Mix in speed drills once they know each table
Once your child can correctly answer the 4s in any order without hesitating, that's when you push for speed. Our multiplication facts speed test gives them a 60-second timed drill of mixed facts. Aim for 25+ correct in a minute by the end of third grade.
Visual aids that actually help
A times table chart pinned to the wall is fine — but the kid who stares at it doesn't memorize it. The kid who reconstructs it from memory does. Have your child fill in a blank multiplication grid once a week. The first time will take 15 minutes. By month two, it'll take three.
When they get stuck on a specific fact
There are usually two or three "sticky" facts that kids fight with for weeks. Common offenders: 6×8, 7×8, 9×6. Don't drill them randomly mixed in with everything else. Drill them in isolation, with a memorable story or pattern.
- 6×8 = 48. "5, 6, 7, 8" — 6 × 8 = 48 has the digits 5, 6, 7, 8 in order.
- 7×8 = 56. Same trick: 5, 6, 7, 8.
- 9×6 = 54. Use the 9s finger trick: hold down the 6th finger; you have 5 fingers on the left, 4 on the right.
Pick whichever mnemonic sticks for your kid. Then drill that one fact alone, twenty times in a row, until it's automatic.
The "show your work" trap
Some kids will compute every multiplication fact from scratch every time. They'll do 7 × 6 by counting 7, 14, 21, 28, 35, 42. That's not memorization — that's a compensation strategy that gets slower as the numbers get bigger. The goal is direct recall: see the problem, say the answer, with no calculation in between.
If you suspect your child is skip-counting their way through facts, time them. Anything over four seconds per fact means they're computing, not recalling. That's a signal to slow down and drill that table again.
Don't skip ahead to long multiplication
It's tempting to move on to multi-digit multiplication once your child sort-of knows their facts. Don't. Long multiplication amplifies fact errors — every wrong fact creates a wrong answer, and tracking down the mistake takes forever. Get facts to 90% accuracy and 3-second recall before introducing multi-digit multiplication.
What to expect
By the end of third grade, kids should know all facts to 10×10 with sub-three-second recall. By the end of fourth grade, they should be fluent through 12×12. Kids who hit those benchmarks cruise through fifth and sixth grade math; kids who don't fight an uphill battle.
If your child is behind, it's fixable. Twenty minutes a day for two months catches almost any third grader up to grade level.